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Why People Hold Onto Lies
Why People Hold Onto Lies (Even When They Hurt Them) It’s one of the most puzzling human behaviors: people clinging to beliefs that clearly harm them. We see it in politics, in religion, in family traditions, even in personal relationships. From the outside, it seems irrational — why would anyone defend a lie that limits…
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Not All Myths Are Bad But Some Are Killing Us
Not All Myths Are Bad But Some Are Killing Us When most people hear the word myth, they think of lies, illusions, or outdated superstitions. The word carries an air of something false, something to be discarded. But myths are not inherently bad. In fact, they are the stories that knit human beings together. They’ve…
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What Makes a Belief Functional? And Why That Matters
What Makes a Belief Functional? And Why That Matters Beliefs are not just abstract ideas floating in our heads. They’re tools. They shape how we interpret reality, how we respond to challenges, and how we organize our lives together. Some beliefs help us navigate the world effectively. Others, while comforting, lead us into dysfunction. So…
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When Fiction Replaces Function The Hidden Cost of False Narratives
When Fiction Replaces Function: The Hidden Cost of False Narratives Human beings live by stories. They shape how we see the world, how we see ourselves, and how we imagine our place in the larger whole. Stories can inspire, heal, and unify. But they can also mislead, distort, and divide. The danger comes when fiction—stories…
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There Is No One Like You
There Is No One Like You (And That’s the Point) Look around long enough, and you’ll notice the pressure everywhere: to measure up, to blend in, to be more like “them”—whoever them might be.It’s easy to believe that your worth depends on comparison, that belonging requires sameness, that difference is a flaw. But pause. Take…
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The Power of Shared Purpose in a Lonely World
We > Me: The Power of Shared Purpose in a Lonely World In an age of hyperconnectivity, loneliness is paradoxically one of the most pervasive conditions of our time. Social media gives us the illusion of constant contact, yet many of us move through our days feeling unseen, unheard, and untethered. Beneath this ache lies…
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From Identity Crisis to Soul Search: Practices for Finding Your Place
From Identity Crisis to Soul Search: Practices for Finding Your Place In moments of upheaval, when who we thought we were no longer fits, the world can feel like it’s tilting under our feet. An identity crisis can arrive suddenly—triggered by a career change, a relationship ending, a shift in belief, or simply the slow…
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How to Build a Sense of Self Without Borrowing Someone Else’s Script
How to Build a Sense of Self Without Borrowing Someone Else’s ScriptFor Anyone in the Middle of Deconstruction When you’re in the thick of deconstruction — whether from religion, ideology, family expectations, or any inherited worldview — there’s a peculiar emptiness that can creep in. You’ve stripped away the scripts that once told you who…